After 2 extra months..10 billion documents wrong..K2 is official today! ;) We had a very nice day. We had the same judge that we had with K1 and it was a way better experience with K2. We were able to go into the Judge's chambers and do the finalization. Aunt Audra was able to make it and help with the crowd control, thanks Audra! :) It feels so great to have that done and to know she is official ours..next step is sealing and blessing.
My heart was very full this morning as I woke up to go to the courthouse. I had to hold back my tears as we drove there. I kept thinking about my father and wishing he was here to experience this with us. I'm sure he was here in spirit but I can't help but want to get a "hug" from him and hear his voice "proud of you Mel".
As we drove I tried to change my thoughts to K2's birthmother and the experience that we had with her. I thought about how K2's birthmother was so kind and let us be part of everything. I was able to go to an ultra sound and be in the delivery room. I will never forget her, I will never forget her unselfishness, her amazing strength and she will always have a part of my heart.
I also kept thinking of Michael McLean's Adoption songs..From God's Arms, to my arms, to yours.
The Gift:
The gift we could not give each other
When I was a little girl I held my dolls like children
dreaming on the day when I'd have babies of my own
When the news was shared with me
that all those dreams could never be
It became the deepest grief my heart had ever known
There's a man who tried his best to comfort me with roses
Promising he'd find a way to make those dreams come true
He did everything he could
To heal my heart but nothing would
And when it seemed that we'd done everything that faith could do
A wonderous gift was given with a phone call straight from heaven
"There's a child that's nearly due that a young girl's giving you"
She gave more than just one life
When she made of this man and wife
A father and a mother when she gave the gift
We could not give each other
More than we could ever say
Our hearts give thanks to heaven
Every time we hold this child we feel we hold the world
Words will never be enough to share the way our family feels
But with every breath we breathe we want to tell that girl
Not a day is ever through
Till we thank the lord for you
And sweetness lingers here
In our hearts and thoughts and prayers
We gave more than just one life
When you made of this man and wife a father and mother
And you gave the gift we could not give each other
You have changed our lives foever
Only you and God above could give the gift of love
We could not give each other.
K2, WE LOVE YOU!! You are a gift!
Monday, March 30, 2009
K2 is official!
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9 comments:
YAY!!!! I'm soo glad she's "officially" yours!! She's beautiful. I'm so happy for you Melanie.
Congratulations! I love those songs too! Make me tear up everytime! Hope you can make it this weekend, but if not, have some good lovin time with your mom.
I'm so glad to hear everything went okay. Good to see you and her at the shower - she is so worth it. Congrats!
Finally! I am happy that they finally figured it all out. Both your girls are beautiful and I am sure your dad was there watching over you, he wouldnt have missed it Im sure!
We love K2 and are so glad she's official! I'm sure Dad was rejoicing with you & the rest of us.
Oh Mel...I'm so happy for you guys. I had tears in my eyes reading your post.
K2,K2, we love you!!!
what a "tear jerker" post sis :)
I love it! I know dad was there with you, and I know he is so happy for your family and K2, too!!!
Mel, that is so sweet! You are an amazing woman! My mom and 3 of her siblings were adopted and we feel so grateful for adoption. I sure wish I could be there to give you a hug. How are you doing anyway? Grieving seems to be a longer process that I would like! I love ya!
Thanks for adding me to your blog!! I love this! I cried reading through it. I was adopted and that song means a lot to me too. It was so wonderful to be with you for the sealing. You and Quinn are amazing people. We love you! We love those girls too!!!
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